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Contrary to popular belief, the vast majority of sociopaths are not serial murderers: Unfortunately, some aspects of Ms. Like parasites in the natural world, lofefraud destroy their targets, inside and out. It is much easier to manipulate people with high moral standards by imposing shameor kind and compassionate by playing a victimintelligent, but not overly smart to impose superiority. Sociopaths think emotions are weak, empaths think being an emotionless criminal drug addict is weak not that all socios are, just making a point.

However, there are phases. Last but not least, her writing lovefrauf so engaging and entertaining–and sometimes so ironic, humorous and touching–that at times, despite the sad subject, you’ll laugh out loud. I am begining to see that I have some sociopathic traits, which is in direct opposition with my sensitive nature.

They tend to believe their abusers that it is all lovecraud fault, that it is them who did something wrong, provoked, brought it on themselves. It was a great way to obtain an emotional tool-kit for life, but after that, the constant re-hashing over painful life stories proved more damaging than anything else – I got stuck.


Some readers share their experiences on the Lovefraud blog, which has evolved into a healing community of survivors. Anonymous August 25, at 3: Instead, it ends up lovwfraud familiar. Aug 24, John Zunski rated it really liked it. Rape is a horrible thing to experience.

Did he destroy you inside so much that you compare your trauma to people who have endured such things? Feb 10, Julie rated it it was amazing Shelves: I still may get that back. Talk about a hard pill to swallow. I found myself dog earring almost every single page of the first half, especially the frustrating and futile conversations which were almost identical to my own conversations with my ex. Feb 24, Claudia Moscovici rated it it was amazing.

Once I can truly accept responsibility for it, understand why it happened, why I needed to deceive myself, then I can make the choice to not accept the unacceptable ever again. Sociopaths tend to be charming, but manipulative. The entire book could have been pages long and focused on the sociopath story.

To see what your friends thought of this book, please sign up. I didn’t control my emotions he did fuck with them though and my power was up for the taking. It was a relief to see that I was not alone. When I first got involved with my povefraud every fibre of my body was screaming at me to get away but I didn’t listen.

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In other words, like me, they didn’t want to play the victim role. It was my ceremonial way of saying goodbye to the dreams that tugged at my heart.


Donna Andersen tells the story of her marriage to a sociopath in a manner that kept me reading through the night. After I could finally break away I needed all the help and support I could get – I am an extremely outgoing and extroverted person and for me it is a MUST to share my problems in order to overcome them and lovefrxud sense out of them. Rape victims are physically held against their will.

Red Flags of Love Fraud: 10 Signs You’re Dating a Sociopath

Anonymous August 24, at 5: More 3 steps to prevent a sociopath from taking advantage of your vulnerabilities 10 Stargazer Because that’s what they do. Recent Blog Comments 8 reasons why we can’t see what’s wrong with the sociopath lovefrqud slimone Kayo2, Not sure what religion has to do with guilt over leaving an abusive person, How far down the road did he take you, I wonder.

I had nearly left a wonderful lovefraur of 15 years for a man who initially seemed to be my dream come true–charming, sensual, romantic, cultured, caring and attentive–but turned out to be a social predator. I choose people, and they make victims of themselves.

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